Patience is not for Wimps

"Be patient with everyone, but above all, be patient with yourself".

On paper, patience is an inspiring virtue, but in practice it is quite easier said than done. Patience is not simply enduring everything without complaining. At times, we need to stand up and be counted, and the virtue of patience provides the strength to do this with civility and kindness rather than through sarcasm. Patience provides us an opportunity to see beyond the moment, responding totally from our hearts. Patience knows that while others may not see it, Jesus quietly encourages it. Didn't HE say: "Come to me, for I am gentle and humble of heart? " The patience that Jesus encourages all of us to seek out is the patience that understands that momentary restraints bring lasting gifts of grace and holiness. They replace instant gratification, which quickly evaporates. Patience holds the sacred idea that change is possible, even when our sinfulness gains the upper hand. Though sometimes winding and often times frustrated, patience is a virtue, that is a straight forward path to sainthood.

Practicing patience provides us with opportunities to place our daily living in perspective, and to respond appropriately. In fact, as an added feature, it reminds us how our actions often try the patience of others.

Below are tips to practice "Patience" according to St. Francis De Sales;

1. Stop trying to be perfect, and recognize your limitations. (Don't be disturbed about your imperfections, and always have the courage to pick yourself up after a fall)

2. Accept changes in life, and see them as possibilities not problems. (Above all don't lose heart, wait and do all you can to develop a spirit of compassion)

3. Tasks take time; avoid discouragement while waiting. (Hurry up in the proper way, for good enough is soon enough)

4. See the bright side., even when slow downs happen (Boy - is this a good one for the LONG ADOPTION PROCESS THAT WERE IN) There is no better way of growing toward perfection in the spiritual life than to be always starting over again and never thinking that we have done enough)

5. Be patient with GOD, no matter the outcome, GOD is on your side. ( I have no doubt that GOD is holding on to you and me by the hand. if he allows you to stumble, it's only to let you know that if he were not holding on to your hand, you would fall. This is how he gets you to take a tighter hold of his hand)

The bottom line: "Be patient with everyone, above all with yourself"